Finding Community After Isolation

Listen after a bad break up or being with a narcissist or sobriety you have to heal yourself and as we realize that all this was a lesson and we own our part of it we are able to do the work to repair those old self love tapes that got shelved. It takes a while to get back to being your biggest cheer leader again and not waiting for someone else to come along and do that job. Not just accepting the things we did before cause we are in a hurry to find someone else to do that. Until you can hold your boundaries and tested in it and when you can be content in your own skin and come 100% because we don’t need some one else to complete you as if you had 50% looking for the other 50%. Bad idea and listen I have been lonely in a room full of people. So I agree lonely and alone are 2 different things. But that wont change until I do the work necessary to repair. We have to learn to love ourselves, if we don’t how do we expect to teach others how to love us’

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